Attilio Anthony John Wagstaffe
Ditto, but in my case too out spoken.... for some....
IMHO, that's the art: calibrating to who I am with.
Some people in training can handle targeting and follow through. Others can't handle it yet. So I try not to hit them.
Some people can handle out spoken while others take its seriously and personally. So I try to be honest but not to offend.
My wife doesn't think sarcasm is funny. The guys I train with do.
As we say in program: serenity/wisdom is knowing the difference.