Dude: 1. You mistook me (not for the first time) for somebody else solely on the basis of a shared first name - which hardly indicates you're the antithesis of slow, or loathe to be argumentative and insulting, in order to compensate for an inferiority complex, hence prone to not looking before you leap.).
2. I wasn't calling you slow. I quoted where you had needlessly, and pathetically called me slow, because what you said made no sense (as it was directed towards Graham Christian); and I contrasted your approach to conflict with that of an aikido great - one who was renowned for a particularly martial approach, and yet had a very peaceful, insightful view of conflict and aikido.
I don't now.... Sorry Graham Christian (at least he doesn't get wound up like you....?) Also I dont quote other peoples sayings, only my own.....