That's all right Colleen
Thank you Opher.
And yes, I meant that in seminars I try to train as the instractor of the seminar had shown. After all, I come to seminars to see new things, other ways of doing a technique. and anyway, no one said my sensei is doing everything right, so it's a good place to make emmends.
Actually, these aikidoka that are trying to make you do the technique 'their way' are usually doing what they were thought in their dojo and not what the sensei in the seminar was showing.