Charles David Henderson
Don't confuse a penchant for losing control when your "self esteem" is challenged with courage.
If you allow someone else to dictate your choices and your responses, you've given away your power and abdicated your freedom as a person to decide what you will do, when you will do it, and how it will be done.
That includes the possibility of choking someone out.
I agree whole-heartedly.
There is a reason why murder - acting with pre-meditation - is universally seen as worse than manslaughter - acting in the heat of the moment.
Say what you like about getting revenge being good - but what kind of revenge, and for what reason...?
Why not just walk the fuck away - is the ego so weak?