I usually try and find synthesis, consensus, and work to resolve conflict. Lately however, it seems that in my work, for whatever reason, I have hit the point on several subjects where this is not working...so, I am having to take a more directive, forceful approach to affect moving in the right direction.
The trick, I think, is to use only the amount necessary to get the job done.
How is it over there at present Kevin?....
I was that way, way before all the troubles..... I never felt welcome..... It was like they were suspicious as to our why we are there?
It's not what you feel on top......... it's what you feel that comes from underneath.......
That was my experience......