Love is love, harmony is harmony, but 合 is neither love, nor harmony. I suggest that many people don't know what 合 is.
Which is not to say that 愛, love, was not an important part of Ueshiba Morihei's worldview.
in asia, we regularly referred to ki/chi/khi as gas, as in too much bean and cabbage.
so here i thought aikido is "the loving way of gasing" and O Sensei was a grandmaster in such thing; thus, i have been pursuit this to the detrimental of friends and family. is it wrong to pursuit such thing?