It's too bad that your first (and only) dojo turned out to be "weird" and turned you off. There are lots of "non-weird" dojos out there as well.
Having said that, it sounds like you're done with aikido for now, so good luck with all future endeavors. I hear rugby is really fun.
There's a neat clip in the "Samurai Spirit" series of a kobudo teacher trying to show a rugby team how to apply martial arts to rugby (check it out).
I love this show!