Don't go there, if you can help it. I went there, and it cost me alot - sometimes you find things out about people later and they are not who you think they are, character-wise, even if you think you are friends. Like maybe you find out you are one of several people who have had similar experiences - people you haven't met because they are no longer at the dojo.
If you've fallen really hard, it may be too late, whether things progress to a relationship or not.
How long have you been practicing there?
Sorry to dump a bucket of water on you, but consider this a public service announcement.