Thank you all for your insight, and your advice. I greatly appreciate you having taken the time to post. I haven't succeded in solving this dillema myself yet, and I appreciate your wisdom on the subject.
Try executing your movements, both as nage and uke, with yourself as the partner, and all other notions lose their hold on you.
Try this, with and without other partners, keeping your vision unclouded.
A thousand thanks! I have much to think about. Again, thank you.