The problem I had occured yesterday after work this guy was looking for trouble and started yelling and moving at me and my hands started shaking all I had was a mean look on my face evidently that shut him down because he walked off but my hands kept shaking my question is can my aikido training help me overcome this or is there something deeper going on.
No, aikido training is not designed to develop right response to hate and aggressive attacker. .The reason is simple. Facing the aggressiveness and hate is not a part of aikido daily training. You may try Mixed Martial Art training.