1. By the way, did you know that winking in enumerated as a sin in the Old Testament, although no one knows why?
Context is everything. Next time you happen to visit a Synagogue try "winking" at the Rabbi's wife. I'm sure he will find one of 10 good reasons for that to be a sin. Your wife will probably find one of 10 good reasons for you not to do that as well!
Just shoot'n from the hip,