Re: Using less force on a smaller person w/o being patronizing
Actually I echo the same thoughts. Most holds I have no problem with finding the balance. But 2 I have some trouble with.
Shihonage and Sankyo.
I know it can be done without pain to the partner. I know I'm only trying to take their balance. I just don't know how to hold it without some discomfort on uke's part, not without losing control of uke anyway.
Discomfort occurs at Uke's wrist. Not shoulders or elbows etc.
Would welcome any insights.