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Old 03-17-2009, 09:26 AM   #49
Ketsan
Dojo: Zanshin Kai
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Join Date: Feb 2005
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Re: Romantic Feelings for a Girl at the Dojo

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The truth is I have a form of social anxiety and find it hard to deal with certain social situations, especially in regards to dating or asking someone on a date.

Rambo, call me a 12 year old girl if you want. Judging someone because of a psychological issue they face in my opinion is on the same level as making fun of someone because they are in a wheel chair.

I didn't tick a box or elect to be the way I am. It is not easy to live a life of regret and loneliness, waking up each day wishing you could be like everybody else.

I'm not sure if anyone else can appreciate how hard it is for me to train with someone I have such strong feelings for and not be able to tell her how I feel, or know how she truly feels about me.
Ask the girl what she would do if she were in your shoes. Tell her she's the only one you trust, tell her about your social anxiety.
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