I don't know about the original poster, but your suggestion was inspirational. I try to incorporate the principles of aikido into my everyday life.
This morning, a coworker was telling me that she found one of her clients masturbating naked and moaning in a room. For some strange reason, she seemed disturbed.
I suggested she be flattered that a client would make her a part of his sexual fantasy. I also suggested she graciously accept his actions as a compliment.
Unfortunately my coworker isn't very patient nor understanding. She's still going to be bothered by her client's actions because she won't change the way she thinks about it.
Too much reading of YouTube comments compels me to double-check: That -was- sarcastic, right?