Thread: How to Say No
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Old 12-19-2008, 10:54 AM   #4
Janet Rosen
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Re: How to Say No

" Mr. ___ , I am married and I'm here to train and if you do not stop bothering me I will report you to the head instructor." Delivered loudly and firmly. And never engage in ANY conversation with him, period. And back up your ultimatum by reporting it; it IS the instructor's business to know this is happening, even if you cannot make him deal with it.

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