Sorry I have not read the entire thread, hence you have hopefully received this advice already.
Stop being a coward ..
I got about this far and stopped reading your post.
Jumping into a discussion admitting that you have not read the entire thread seems a little quick on the draw, am I wrong?
If you want to contribute may I suggest you do what the rest of the posters here have done? Take time to read the entire thread and what others have contributed. It sounds like you read my first post then hammered the reply button.
If you posted something asking for help I would respect you enough to make myself better aware of the entire issue before commenting.