Re: Another harassment question
I hope that if I observed this continuing harrasment in a dojo I attended I would:
A) tell the instructor in private I don't like the comments, and it doesn't matter whether it bothers her or not.
B) tell the instructor in public the same thing, and that I will be leaving the dojo if it continues
C) leave the dojo.
Take your friend with you (if she is willing) and find a better place to train together.
Ron (what a jerk)