Re: Kotegaishi weakness?
You can all write about "what to do" and what "not to do" theoretically, but in fact, if in this example the attack (gote gaeshi) has been stoped (via force/whatever from he uke/real person) than:
If you're stronger, you'll apply more pressure to the wrist.
If you're smarter you will break his balance.
If you're in unknown situation/afraid, kick him in the nuts (exit attack usually used in krav maga and probably others and have been found most effective in real life situations)