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Thomas Donelson wrote:
PHRASES FOR DISCHARGING ANGER:
Why are you trying to hurt me?
Why are you trying to hit me?
What makes you angry?
What are you angry about?
Why are you angry?
Stop trying to hit me.
CONFRONTING A BULLY:
Why are you trying to push me?
Why are you trying to hit me?
Stop trying to hit me.
Stop pushing me.
The object with a billy is to make his efforts to intimidate ineffective, and to ask the bully to behave.
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Thomas,
Have you found those questions to be effective when dealing with bullies?