Erik, I very much like this view on the way in which decisions are made... in this are you also implying that a youth of say... 14/15/16 can make just as mature a judgement as someone over the age of 18, on whether or not to have a relationship with someone who is 25, if that youth has the experiance and "expertise" to deal with the situation and act in an according manner. - i am sorry if I have got the wrong impression from your post...