Will write you a PM on this one... shortly.
I sent a PM as well.
To be more clear I would just prefer
to feel than to talk. The talk always sound so good. The actual level of skill delivered? So far, not so much. These things can and should be fun and nonconfrontational. As has been noted here I've done many of these things and made friends.
Might I suggest they try both the no-touch throws and actual touching throws on me while we are at it? I have many years of Ukemi, and er...non-ukemi.
It should be a good time.
No TV. Beers on me. and dinner If I get tossed.