There are no tricks to it.
There are no shortcuts.
There are no inspirational words that will magically make it happen.
Tough. Sometimes the only real answer isn't the one you want.
Do it. Or give up. Because that is what it all boils down to.
Indeed. And really, there is no giving up on the core issues you're running into because they are at the core of you. Unless you're willing to give up on yourself