Take care of your uke
no matter if your uke is a woman or a man.
That's what I wanted to say.
I'm not practicing Aikido to use Aikido techniques on the street.
that means, that:
I think, practicing martial art in order to use its techniques outside the dojo is wrong. Even if you are a woman.
And if anybody blaims me in being too soft to uke - well I really don't care. That's my own way of practice. And I'll always perform a softer technique when I'm practicing with women.
Because I know how it ends with harder techniques on women - I've already written about bruises...
just my humble opinion.
BTW, I never said that I don't like practicing a technique with a woman. I do like training with women.