I'm sure I don't know...
With all due respect you don't. No worries Ross...
in the spirit of compassion if your "feelings" are hurt it may be a sign of attachment and by understanding why you"feel" the way you do... You just may come to "know" a little bit more about yourself.
Tetsen Rinpoche was in Malibu and gave a Dharma talk the day before yesterday...Of the many things he said two resonate for me in this discussion...
"The only thing you take with you from this world is your spritual practice" and "Ignorance is the root cause of all suffering One must strive for clarity in thier daily life."