I anticipated this problem -
Not only did I agree to transfer the prize to someone more local, I also have arranged to trade some aikido related dvds as a more "sendable" prize. Hopefully others in this situation can also work something out.
Glad to hear all that we were able to raise for Mary. Thanks to all who participated, and of course to Jun!!
You might want to contact the donor to see if they're willing to transfer the gift to someone else. Might you know someone in the Norfolk area who might enjoy the prize?