This book is available in english..ha-h-ha.
I'd say, make friends with your entire situation. And just as a good friend would do, don't judge yourself each step of the way..let it ride and take in your unique circumstance.
BTW, my brother has lived in Helsinki for 6 years and is just getting the hang of the language. He often says,Finnish (Suomen) language is closely related to Hungarian, and they are both very difficult to comprehend.