If you want to have a discussion, that's fine. I've been very civil, realizing that this kind of subject is very charged. Your post is insulting and donwright ugly. I'm not interested in that.
No offense intended.
I don't believe I was doing anything different than any poster who made any comment about another's Aikido. One person implies brutality. I flipped the coin and accused excessive softness. One person says it's not Aikido. I flipped the coin and called the other extreme dancing.
The biggest difference is that I offer an excellent reason for hard techniques. To help uke improve ukemi.
Either way, whatever gets you through the day.