Re: aikido and competition
I was once told that the root of the word competitor is similar to that of companion, and that the runner wants his friend to race against him to improve his own performance. I like that explanation, even if the etymology is not correct.
A contest has 'rules' and when the whistle blows there is a recognised winner/loser/drawer.
Judo BJJ and the like I see as chess with alot more sweat and grunting.
Aikido is not a sport so the rules are not the same. The only person to 'beat' is oneself, and even that doesn't sound right.
The way of harmony with ki, how do you compete with that?