Hmmm, expand? No, there are personal relationships involved, and I don't believe in bandying those about on the net.
I think we have enough to go on...if anyone is interested in the turn this has taken.
Not resisting and unable to resist. Well, if I am not resisting to begin with, unable to resist doesn't really show, does it? But if I am resisting, doing my utmost not to be thrown, but find I can't sucseed, then I know something has taken place, and I want to know what. At the same time, there is a difference between 'resisting' and 'attacking with no thought to take a fall', isn't there?
I find that these are questions that go to the heart of a lot of issues in aikido...
compete vs don't compete
internal vs external power generation
uke vs nage relationships
effective vs not effective
You could probably go on and on...