Re: Instructor got mad because I didnt fall
There are a lot of things to consider here. Let's look at some of them.
1...Did you purposely resist the technique because you knew what was coming?
2...Did your sempai allow you to clamp on hard prior to attempting the technique?
3...What was the reaction of both of you when the technique did not work?
4...Why did the sempai complain to the sensei about you?
5...Does the sempai usually complain about ukes?
6...Do people usually complain about you?
7...Do kohai frequently complain about this sempai?
I can go on and on, but the main thought here is that without actually witnessing the event it is very difficult to comment on it, simply because we all perceive things differently.
I would just let it ride and try to answer the questions that I wrote above as honestly as possible.
Aikido should teach among many things tolerance. Please continue your training in good faith. As an old saying goes"...and this to shall pass".