Rebecca Montange wrote:
My only qualm is what happens if we break up. We've both been in aikido too long to quit and he's not the type to deal well with seeing an ex around./
Happened here. It sucked
a lot. But...I was not about to give up something I loved and started when I was single; so I had to choose...be miserable or focus on the positive energy when I trained Aikido...I chose the latter.
It has been hard, but over time we have learned be around each other and even be friends.
Maturity plays a huge role in that
There are others.
If you two continue on successfully, then it is great that you both can share this passion.
PS Tell him what you want in your training.