I'm afraid I have to agree.
You obviously have not trained indepth with Aikido so you are coming across as arrogant and insulting, which I am sure you do not intend to be Red.
The first lesson of Aikido, imo, is connection. There is no point discussing until you have this to give us a place to start communicating with each other.
btw I don't consider myself to be a nice guy...just nicer than before