Originally posted by mj
This might seem stupid, I've not told many people this. ...
Still don't totally understand why it was the best thing ever for me... but it was.
Well, you just told a few
I think when you go through a rough experience like that, you tend to lose the fear that you once had of dealing with that type of situation. And perhaps the reward after reinforced it.
You sound a little like those guys in the movies who keep coming back, no matter how many times they're shot. No wonder you guys were never defeated by your neighbours to the south.