thank you guys for the replies. i know that it can be the ukes fault. but the guy i was training with is 5th kyu and I have known him for 15 years.. he is a great aikidokas... but has a big ego at times. we were doing the first throw we ever learned kotegashi and my teacher has been telling us higher students ( 5th kyu and up) to provide some resistans so... he lost his balence and my arm is now healing from the injury!!
yes nage= tori and uke =uke!!
but I know both parties can be blamed to... again thanks! just making sure i wasnt alone!