Re: Please help me find a dojo in Melbourne!
I'm not sure I miss your point, although I'm almost convinced that I disagree with it. It's funny how often someone tell's me that I don't understand, when in fact, I just don't agree.
In answer to your question, I would prefer neither.
But once again you're attempting to draw me away from the context. I am not talking about wearing the hakama and being a pedo at the same time
To use your example, how about this:
A priest in full frock that fully adheres to the rites and rituals of the church and the priesthood whenever possible, but is down-to-earth, and as such doesn't mind being dressed liked a country bum if the need arises, and he touches people's lives by his "being"?
Why not the best of both worlds?