Motivational Strategies by Lynn Seiser
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I have trained in martial arts and fighting systems my entire adult
life. I started when I was 17. That was 38 years ago.
It was once suggested to me that I started the martial arts out of
fear. I had to admit that was why I started. When asked if I was still
afraid, I had to admit I wasn't.
When I am asked why I continue, I say I don't golf. There is something
about the windmill and clown faces that I just never got over.
When asked how I get myself to keep showing up, I always respond it's
because it's who I am and I am having fun.
This is just getting me started about modern sport psychology applied
to traditional martial arts training. Here are a few initial thoughts
for your consideration and conversation.
There are usually two directions to motivation, away from and
towards. Most fear-based motivation is away-from. It's what we don't
want to happen, it's negative. Towards motivation is what we do want
to happen, it's positive. There is a difference in how you train if
it's because you are afraid and don't want to get beat up or if you
want to feel better yourself and safer when facing conflict. I often
ask people if they make a shopping list based on what they want or
what they don't want. It's amazing how many people spend most of their
life in the negativity of always searching, and finding, what they
don't really want. A great propulsion system is to remind yourself of
what will happen if you don't train (giving a little push from behind)
and what will happen if you do (a pull from the front).
Another factor or variable in motivation is whether it is external or
internal. Are you training to please someone else or yourself? Does
the reward or payoff from training come through recognition by others
who are watching or will appreciate your accomplishments or from an
internal sense of better well-being and self-acceptance and
appreciation. When no one is watching, how well do you train? As
humans, we all want to be accepted and appreciated by others. As
humans, most of us suffer most because we don't accept and appreciate
ourselves.
Are you most motivated by something visual, auditory, or kinesthetic?
When you ask yourself how you get yourself to train well, you may find
that it is through the visual image of how it looks to you and
others. Others are motivated because of what it says about them. Still
others are motivated because of how it feels or how it's going to
feel.
You may be motivated away from your past because of who you used to be
and towards the future of who you would like to be. You may be
motivated by the acceptance and appreciation of others as well as
yourself. You may motivate yourself by what you see, hear, and feel.
When you've trained as long as I have, it's just what you do and who
you are. The motivation comes through identity, enjoyment of the
activity, and the people.
Whatever it takes, I hope we are all motivated to become better people
and to work together towards a better world. I hope one day we can
share space and time training together and enjoy our humanness.
Thanks for listening, for the opportunity to be of service, and for
sharing the journey. Get back to training. KWATZ!
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