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Creation Date: 06-08-2009 01:55 PM
Linda Eskin
My path to and through Aikido. Observations on Aikido, fitness, happiness, horses, & life, by a 53 y/o sho-dan.

This same blog (with photos and a few additional trivial posts, but without comments) can be found at www.grabmywrist.com.

I train with Dave Goldberg Sensei, at Aikido of San Diego.
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In A-to Z April 2016 Aikido Is An Elephant Entry Tools Rate This Entry
  #234 New 04-06-2016 01:33 AM
This is the fifth in this series of 26 posts, one of each letter of the alphabet, that I am writing during the Blogging from A to Z Challenge, April 2016. You can find all the posts, as they are published throughout the month, by following the A-to-Z April 2016 tag.


E is for Elephant.

I have trained with many students and instructors from a variety of lineages, and read or listened to many more. Each one sees Aikido from a different perspective. For one, Aikido might be primarily a tool for defending one's self from muggers and rapists. For another, the purpose of Aikido is to protect all beings For yet another, Aikido is a moving form of meditation, cultivating our presence and attention.

Some appreciate the health benefits of strenuous physical activity, the challenge of rolling and falling gracefully, and the camaraderie of getting sweaty with friends. Others love the philosophical side, seeing that we all one human family, and learning that we really can be compassionate, even toward someone attacking us. Still others appreciate the worldwide community focused on peacemaking, non-violent communication, and conflict resolution.

Some love the never-ending pursuit of mastery that comes with continuously refining technical skills that have been passed down, unchanged, from teacher to student. Others see Aikido as an ever-changing art, expanding and evolving over time, and are excited to be part of creating this future direction.

The One True Way

Sometimes you'll find that people can get stuck in one of these views, as sure as can be that theirs is the correct interpretation of Aikido. In my experience, each of these perspectives can be valid in its own way, and can contribute to a more complete understanding of the whole.

Although Aikido people generally are open-minded and accepting of a wide range of ideas, it's surprising how testy these debates can get. One side is positive the other's approach to teaching or training will destroy the art with their new ideas. The other equally certain that the first is misguided in their dedication to the preserving the past, as though Aikido were a museum piece.

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"As soon as you concern yourself with the ‘good' and ‘bad' of your fellows, you create an opening in your heart for maliciousness to enter. Testing, competing with, and criticizing others weaken and defeat you."
~ Morihei Ueshiba, O Sensei -- the Founder of Aikido
The Art of Peace

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You will hear some claiming that another's Aikido would not work in a street fight, while the other feels the first is totally missing the point of O Sensei's spiritual intent for the art.

There are even schools that participate in competition, something the founder explicitly denounced, but their reasoning for it seems to be well intended. And of course there are many who condemn this competition as contrary to the central principles of Aikido.

Aikido is an Elephant

Have you heard the story of the Blind Men and the Elephant? In this tale a group of blind men examines an elephant by feeling it with their hands. Each one is feeling a different part, and comes to a very different conclusion about what this thing called an "elephant" might be.

The man feeling the elephant's sturdy, upright leg declares that an elephant is like a tree. The one at the tail end is sure an elephant is like a rope. Another, feeling the trunk, is convinced that an elephant must be something like a large snake.

One man, feeling a tusk, is certain the others have lost their minds, because an elephant is obviously nothing like a tree, rope, or snake, but is more like a spear, long and sharp. Still another, feeling the elephant's broad, flat side can tell, plain as day, that an elephant is most definitely like a wall. The poor guy feeling the elephant's thin, flat, gently flapping ear can't understand what his friends must be thinking, because surely it should be obvious to anyone that an elephant is like a fan.

Their different experiences have lead them to apparently conflicting views on what an elephant is. They are each wrong, but together they are right. An elephant is indeed like all these things. The perceptions are not exclusive -- together they make up a more complete impression of the whole elephant.

Aikido is like this. The different perspectives -- seeing Aikido as anything from a fun, healthful physical activity, to a serious martial art with devastating power, to a practice of peace that can unite humanity -- are all right.

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"Every perspective is true and partial. Everyone has a piece of the truth."
~ Ken Wilber

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More perspectives on Aikido

Here are just a few more ways of looking at Aikido:
  • Aikido is an effective martial art for protecting one's self and others -- including the attacker.
  • Aikido is physically challenging -- developing strength, balance, posture, flexibility, and endurance.
  • Aikido is moving meditation -- a practice in being aware and awake.
  • Aikido is the continuous pursuit of mastery.
  • Aikido is a way to examine how we interact with others.
  • Aikido is a means of developing ourselves.
  • Aikido is fun, exciting, rough-and-tumble play.
  • Aikido is a worldwide community of friends and teachers.
  • Aikido is a healthful practice that promotes fitness, and mental well-being.
  • Aikido is learning how to fall safely, minimizing risk of injury throughout life.
  • Aikido is helpful in recovering from past trauma / PTSD.
  • Aikido is useful in law enforcement, health care, and mental health contexts.
  • Aikido is the embodiment of principles of non-competition, non-resistance, and compassion.
  • Aikido is learning to be comfortable with conflict, and to resolve it without violence.
  • Aikido is great for kids, seniors, young people, and middle-aged, tall or short, big or small, fit or not.

It is important to remember that these perspectives are not exclusive. Aikido is a philosophical practice, and a fun way to stay fit. Aikido is an authentic martial art with deep roots, and a great way to meet nice people. Aikido is a mirror in which we can see ourselves more clearly, and a system of joint locks and pins.

Which Aikido is Right for You?

If you are thinking of finding a dojo and training in Aikido, you will see that different teachers emphasize different perspectives. So how do you choose the right school or teacher for you?

I would not say that you should look for a teacher who focuses on what you think you want to learn. Frankly, as a new student you don't know yet what is really available to you. What I have gotten out of my training so far is much broader than what brought me into the dojo at the beginning.

What is important is to find a teacher and a dojo community you can trust. One with solid technical proficiency, knowledge of the philosophical side of the art, an open mind, and a good heart. Train for a few years, at least, and then you will begin to see the bigger picture of what Aikido has to offer you.


Linda Eskin is a writer, Aikido student, personal trainer, horse person (with a pet donkey), and former software/web industry professional (tech comm and UX). She is currently completing two books for students of Aikido, one for children and one for adult beginners. Linda trains with Dave Goldberg Sensei at Aikido of San Diego, in California, and holds the first black belt rank, sho-dan. Sho-dan literally means "beginning rank."
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